Sisters + Girlfriends
{a colleague shared this with me years ago, and I thought it was worth passing on}
A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot, humid day,
drinking iced tea and visiting her Mother.
As they talked about life, about marriage,
about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood,
the Mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully
and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter.
"Don't forget your Sisters," she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass.
"They'll be more important as you get older.
No matter how much you love your husband,
no matter how much you love the children you may have,
you are still going to need Sisters.
Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them.
Remember that Sisters also means
your girlfriends,
your daughters,
and other women relatives, too.
You'll need other women. Women always do."
What a funny piece of advice, the young woman thought.
Haven't I just gotten married and joined the couple world?
I'm now a married woman, for goodness sakes! A grown up!
Surely my husband and the family we may start will be all I need.
But she listened to her Mother.
She kept in contact with her Sisters and made more women friends each year.
As the years tumbled by, one after another,
she gradually came to understand what her Mom meant.
As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon their women,
Sisters are the constants of their lives.
After more than 60 years of living in this world, here is what I've learned:
Time passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Jobs come and go.
Love waxes and wanes.
Hearts break.
Parents die.
Husbands die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Careers end.
But Girlfriends are there, no matter how much time and
how many miles are between you and her.
A Girlfriend is never farther away than needing her can reach.
When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself,
your Girlfriends will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on,
praying for you, pulling for you,
intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley's end.
Sometimes they will even break the rules and walk beside you.
Or come in and carry you out.
Girlfriends, sisters, daughters, daughters-in-law, sisters-in-law, Mother,
aunts, nieces & cousins bless our lives!
The world wouldn't be the same without them, and neither would I.
When we began this adventure called womanhood,
we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead.
Nor did we know how much we would need each other.
Everyday we need each other still.
Have a great day, BF's!!
xoxo